Me and my man! the scoop on us!

Basics
1. Who is your man?Lance
2. How long have you been together? dating for almost 11 years married for over 10!
3. Dating/Engaged/Married? married for 10 years and 5 months
4. How old is your man? 38

?You or your man?*
1. Who eats more? depends on what it is, but sadly probably me.
2. Who said "I love you" first?Totally me!
3. Who weighs more? Yeah me again! sad but true!
4. Who sings better? Um mE! unless we are doing karaoke revolution contest, and he always beats me on duets. but i score more points.
5. Who's Older? TOtallY HIM! i'm 30
6. Who's smarter? Book smart him! Nerd score? me! ! ok probably him but i am close.

DIFFERENT WAYS
7. Who's temper is worse?depends on the time of the month ;)

8. Who does the laundry?him, but lately nobody, because he is boycotting helping me and is also never home lately
9. Who does the dishes? used to be him but lately me. again boycotting!
10. Who sleeps on the right side of the bed? ME
11. Who's feet are bigger? his but barely
12. Who's hair is longer? it is a tie. no probably me by just a little bit. but mine has more style and more product!
13. Who's better with the computer? Totally him! computer systems engineer!
14. Who mows the lawn? he does
15. Who pays the bills? He makes me do it so i am more accountable and stressed about funds so i don't spend freely anymore
16. Who cooks dinner? totally him, but i am a summer widow this summer since he is doing air conditioning. so i have to.
17. Who drives when you are together? he does
18. Who pays when you go out to dinner? I generally slip him the funds, so he can be the man and pay, I control the money
19. Who's the most stubborn? depends. i think it is him but he'd say it was me.
20. Who is the first one to admit when they're wrong? neither of us! i hate to admit i am wrong!
21. Who's parents do you see more? Mine now that we live close to my mom, but when we lived closer to his mom we saw his more.
22. Who named your dog? my brother Gary
23. Who kissed who first? probably me! i was pretty forward!
24. Who asked who out? totally me! he tricked me! * see bottom of post for explanation*
25. What did you do? real date ? we went to olive garden and then parking at the lake!
26. Who's more sensitive? he cries in movies more than me. but i am overall more sensitive and cry more on a daily basis.
27. Who's taller? ME
28. Who has more friends? ME
29. Who has more siblings? ME
30. Who wears the pants in the relationship? i like to think it is me but it is probably him! depends on what it is.

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*explanation* well we met the year before. he was on a year no dating fast! whatever he was old! so when he wanted to start dating he showed up at my family home evening group. as he was leaving i walked out with him, and I said, " hey ,why don't you ask me out sometime?" and he told me, " I would but i'm not dating", but then he said," but you could ask me out if you want to." so I said, "ok wanna go out with me on Friday night? you're paying." and he said yeah. then he said ,"why don't you come for a ride in my new truck? " So I did. and yeah that was the beginning and the end. and small world i found out that night he lived around the block from me. too easy to get together! so yeah i came on to my husband and that is how we got together! LAME!~ for me! lame lame lame! you'd think i could have the guy i married be the one to make the first move but no! he had to be difficult and now he admits he was totally manipulating the whole situation! that his friend and brother had told him for a long time to take me out! and that he had come to my FHE group that night on purpose! he sucks! tricky freaking guy!